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Stripper's avatar

Do realize that this is a certain type of woman, not all women.

It is a very unhealthy dynamic that guys can fall for because sex is weaponized in an atypical manner.

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Opium Tales's avatar

"Just like the broke, awkward and socially inept gymbro looksmaxxer that can't understand why girls aren't just jumping on his dick, these girls are often just as clueless unable to understand why they can't form healthy and lasting relationships."

Funniest thing I read today.

Thank you Sir.

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Stripper's avatar

Glad to be of service!

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Clayton Robertson's avatar

Men are in love.

Women are in business.

Proceed accordingly.

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Piotr Pachota's avatar

There's more - the succubus can ruin the man's subsequent relationship prospects, possibly forever. Knowing that succubus-level sex is not some fake porn stunt or a one night stand slut thing but something actually possible and available in a long term relationship can set him on a path towards either sexual frustration or a never-ending search for the unicorn: a normal girl somehow able to provide succubus-level sex.

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Stripper's avatar

It is possible, but you're not wrong.

Chris Rock once joked that as women can go backwards in lifestyle, men can't go back sexually.

It can definitely be an issue for a guy that has had top shelf sex to settle for less. Ask me how I know...

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Robert M.'s avatar

You mean as women CAN'T go backwards in lifestyle . . .

I had a succubus vamp, who eventually dumped me because I wouldn't move to her state, and also I didn't make enough money for her. I consoled myself by my uncertainty of how much the "Androgel" (Prescription Testosterone Gel) was amping up my sexual drive and satisfaction. Years later I couldn't be sure how much sexual ecstasy from the succubus was her doing or the drug's.

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JC's avatar

What specifically does succubus-level or top-shelf sex look like to you?

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JC's avatar

What specifically does succubus-level sex look like to you?

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magi83's avatar

Pretty simple. She doesn’t merely do everything you ask or desire. You don’t even need to ask.

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OKRickety's avatar

Sounds analogous to an *alpha widow*, that is, it's difficult to accept a reduction in lifestyle after experiencing the best.

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MOX's avatar

You have described my BPD ex.

its been a year, i am a shell of who i was but something better came from all of it.

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Mike's avatar

I just can't safely comment.

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Ken Barber's avatar

Well said.

"Don't be that guy." I've been that guy.

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The Love Addict's avatar

Same type of woman will also tell you, unprompted, "I've never been on a real date." 😆

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JC's avatar

Can you explain this? Why?

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The Love Addict's avatar

Self protection mechanism? Not sure. If it comes up organically it's fine, but if she brings it up spontaneously, especially if it's before you even have a first date, it's usually a sign she's only good for sex. She may say she wants a date and would love a relationship but for girls "I've never been on a real date" = guys come over to Netflix and chill or I get fucked in the back of their truck, so her saying this is preemptively framing herself as not date material. And if you treat her like date material... Well. You've read the post. Same thing as "I've never been in a relationship." Dudes think "wow she's never been in a relationship, I'm so lucky!" but ignore the signs that the whole town knows exactly what the dimple on his girlfriends left ass cheek looks like.

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JC's avatar

What are those signs? Why does saying she's never been in a relationship indicate that?

So if she says she's never been on a real date or been in a relationship (bringing it up spontaneously) that means she might be a succubus?

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JC's avatar

This is a great post and I love the catfish analogy. I think it generalizes, in that men assume women want a healthy relationship with full honesty, transparency, and intimacy (pure clean water) but in reality most women need some mystery and distance and the illusion that their guy isn't a flawed insecure human (salty water) in order to have sexual chemistry.

I feel torn here, as I feel like that's a really unhealthy dynamic.

Seems like the succubi are experts at getting men to drop their boundaries - and of course when you don't drop your boundaries that is attractive.

Also, this is another reason to never let yourself go without sex - it makes you easy prey.

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Robert M.'s avatar

Sex is highly dangerous. No mistake about it. It's dangerous to your body, mind, wallet, heart, and to your way of life. But also RISK=REWARD!

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JC's avatar

It's not dangerous - it's normal, natural, and essential.

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Astral's avatar

It’s a fair compensation and you can get away with quite a lot that way. Both parties happy

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El guapo's avatar

Had to experience first hand. Dodged a bullet, emotionally destroyed me. Not worth the squeeze, get out as soon as possible.

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Vinnie's avatar

Same for this type of male...

Perhaps why it used to be important to meet family and friends...

To 'assess' the social surroundings of the person...

If their home/ family life exhibited chaos...

Easier to break away...

These days...

Not so much...

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Safety Bear's avatar

My first wife was a Brackish Bitch but also, despite her looks, shit in bed. Honestly I learned to masturbate better than the sparse sex I’ve had over the years. Relationships have come relatively easy, just not the sex part.

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SeeC's avatar

Which is why most are not marrying and having kids anymore.

If you don’t have kids and don’t get sex why would you keep a woman around ?

Even if she wasn’t a woman, dealing with another person is a complicated and tiring affair, so there has a to be a benefit.

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Safety Bear's avatar

I got the kids.

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SeeC's avatar

Makes sense. Maybe they’ll understand later down the line what was the sacrifice and be grateful !

Good luck

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Waylon S Kohler's avatar

O’Neal was brilliant.

Ever read Alraune?

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Stripper's avatar

No I haven't. I'll check it out. Thanks!

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xrunner55's avatar

Below are links for what I could find about brackish feminine with perplexity. Spot on, I met a girl like that. Expected me to install a light fixture after drinks and no sex. It did not last more than three attempts.

https://youtu.be/C-8MYpXvG3c?si=2m-jAN8L-viVjIjf

https://youtu.be/yyEI8TrCmxM?si=UU3mq9lqbTpUsOoW

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Stripper's avatar

It's not common, but they do exist. I have had one in my life and so have a few friends of mine. Thankfully, it was all when we were younger and dumber.

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